I don’t know about you, but nothing reminds me of my childhood more than iced sugar cookies! One day I came home after school from 3rd Grade and my mom had made heart-shaped sugar cookies with pink icing. I must’ve devoured half the cookies on the spot, and my sweet tooth was very satisfied. I was happy and my mom was happy, because she loves when we ask her for food. It’s a mom thing, wanting your kids to have healthy (and sometimes not-so-healthy) appetites.
The sugar cookies my mom made were from a Betty Crocker cookbook that our American neighbor had gifted her, after I kept asking my mom for all desserts American. Growing up in an American compound in Saudi Arabia means that my love for the sweetest of American sweets is well-developed. I’m talking about sugar cookies, chocolate chip cookies, fudge, toffee, caramel anything, pralines, pecan pie with ice cream, etc.
It’s Valentine’s Day this weekend! Lots of people have lots of different views about Valentine’s Day. Some people think it’s a huge commercial grab and don’t want to get caught up in it. Others don’t like that they’re told to show their love on a specific date. Still, others don’t like the pressure that comes with this day like the expectation of chocolates, flowers, dinners, etc. And then there are those who love everything about the holiday and how ‘sweet’ it is.
Just so you know where I stand, let me tell you that I don’t expect a lot for Valentine’s Day in terms of gifts or dinner or anything like that. In that sense, I’m pretty easy to be around on Valentine’s Day, and we celebrate in a rather low-key way.
Maybe that’s why I can come up with three reasons why I’m okay with Valentine’s Day:
Reason Number 1: The reminder of love!
It’s okay for us to have a special day in the year to tell our loved ones that we care. It’s that simple. If we celebrate our birthdays, anniversaries, mother’s day and father’s day once a year, then what’s wrong with having one day where we mindfully tell one another that we care about each other? You don’t have to succumb to all of the commercial pressures of flowers, perfume, and dinners. Buy or make a card, spend an hour having coffee with your partner, or play a game with your child. That’s it. This is not a public holiday. Think of Valentine’s Day as a love ‘reminder’ day. Continue reading →